Frequently asked questions

Clear answers ensure total peace of mind before your visit. Learn how appointments operate, what hygiene standards are maintained, and how discretion is protected.

This is my first experience I am nervous?

I see many first timers and am very compassionate, laid back and understanding. We have all been there.

I am concerned about my health?

A shower or quick wash is available before and after the booking. I take my general and sexual health very very seriously. I get regular sexual health checks and as a precaution for your health and mine. I have never had a STI and it is not on my bucketlist. I perform all sexual services naturally skin to skin ( expect for toys) Condoms are available if required.

What is your age and description?

Hi my name is Paul, I satrted working mid 2026. I am 57 years old. I have short grey hair, a couple of small tattoos. I am fit and quite muscly for my age weigh around 95Kgs 5'11". I am told I am good looking and look younger than my actual age, with a good sense of humour. My body is fully waxed apart from a hairy chest.

I am concerned about my confidentiality?

Good to hear so am I. I live in a multi level apartment complex. I will meet you in the lobby on arrival and we will take the lift to my floor. After the booking you can take the lift to the ground floor unaccompanied. If i should bump into someone I know I say I am selling more stuff on Trade Me. My confidentiality is as important as yours. I have friends, fellow tenants and family that are not aware of what I am doing. I will also not bombard you with texts or calls. 

What about parking?

There is always metered parking available in front of the building, the lobby is most always empty.

Am I allowed to touch you?

Most definitely. The booking is all about your enjoyment. I am open to touch, whatever level you are comfortable with including oral on me.

How does payment work?

I always get the business side out of the way at the start of the booking. I prefer the correct cash as I do not always have change. I can do BNZ transfers but find cash is king.

How much notice do you need?

Ideally an hour as sometimes I am out and about. In saying that I have seen clients within 20 minutes. I only have limited bookings available in a day and prefer same day bookings and a message or call to confirm when you are on your way.